This has been the hardest few days for me...the heartache is almost unbearable. Thank you all so very much for your kind comments and personal emails. I asked Diana what I could do to prepare Lena for her journey back home...this is what she said below. I think she is an amazing lady who loves her cats more than anything else and has a heart for those who's hearts are breaking.
"Talk to Lena and explain to her why she is not going to be living with you any longer. Tell her she is wonderful and lovable and I am working hard to find a kind loving home for her. And I will succeed. She needs to know that her needs are not going to be met at your home. And that you are sad because of that, you really wanted it to work. And that it is ok that this is not working out. And bless her and send her on her way. And then forgive yourself. She will recuperate. She will survive and she will thrive in a new environment."